There was a little girl,
Who had a little curl,
Right in the middle of her forehead.
When she was good,
She was very good indeed,
But when she was bad she was horrid.
~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow~
After Sunday's ride I ended up giving Carmen three days off. I wasn't feeling the best and decided to just have a bit of a break. I also figured that a break for her in the middle of summer would not be a bad thing. Thursday I decided to lunge her before getting on but she was fine. It was a good ride. She started off pretty sluggish but as we progressed she became more forward and up. Not in a bad way, in a good way. I was pretty pleased to feel her offering lengthens on the trot diagonal and encouraged her to do so.
It was a very interesting lesson. Every time she hesitated or balked I applied the theory of 'more forward'. Soon we had this lovely, swinging trot. It felt great- not rushed, pushing from behind.
We picked up a canter and headed down toward A. Just as we were coming up the corner she began to stiffen her front legs and crow-hop. She then spun and took off. Where the fuck are we going? I asked her but she just kept spinning in different directions. I steered her towards the fence and made her come to a stop.
|at least I'm sitting up.....|
We came back to that corner because I'm just not buying that she's frightened. In fact, she didn't even feel frightened. It felt more like she was looking to get out working. Which is fair, because in the past that would have worked. But now I'm not giving in and the only thing that leads to a break is listening.
And so we had a lesson with so many really good moments with some rather hairy ones. We played with the counter canter loop and it was pretty easy for her. Even going into the corner that she had labeled as 'dangerous'.
|so we had these moments...("what is this? We go across the diagonal|
|....and these ones (ooh, now I get it. Easy peasy')|
|soft, listening, forward.|
We practiced the leg yields to X and back to the rail. At first she couldn't focus on what I was asking and go annoyed. The solution was to drop to walk to get the result I wanted (actually leg yielding) and then were able to stay in trot.
In the end it was a good, albeit fraught, lesson. I gave breaks and rewards for every 'try'. For every evasion the leg came on and we went FORWARD NOW. We ended with her relaxed and chilling in the 'scary corner' which shows just how she truly felt about it.
I'm actually thinking of riding in some small spurs. Not to get the go but to have some teeth when she blows against my inside leg.
When I was young my mother used to recite that poem to me. I think I have an inkling of what she was trying to tell me. I know that talented horses can be difficult. I also know that we are making progress. Of course I want it all right now. I don't want her to lose her fire, I just want to have more control over it. What Carmen has to realize is that I've had a lot more practice.
I know that poem, recited to my daughter. She now most probably recites it to hers! I recall Camryn playing games similar in arena. I'd call her " be-otch" and ride on shaking my head.ReplyDelete
LOL, that word may have passed my lips on occasion.Delete
My parents always told me that poem. They still do. It’s because of my curly hair and temper. 😂 Apparently, you don’t actually need the curl.ReplyDelete
Carmen is giving you a run for your money, but I agree that it’s more an excuse to get out of working. You can tell the difference. Cowboy used to pull out all the tricks when he didn’t want to work. Back in our early days we did 90% arena work and he hated it. When we switched that percentage to trails, he became pretty golden. Probably because trails don’t really feel like work to them.
Part of your experience also reminds me of BG, but BG wasn’t going to stop until my trainer, and then me, were off her back. She spun, bucked, bolted and ran away bucking and snorting. So, I guess Carmen must not really want you off, or she’d go further. Maybe you should hire someone to ride and work her hard for a solid week. Good cop, bad cop.
I had a temper when I was young too. I honestly feel that I need to ride this out with her.Delete
Thinking a lot of your most recent posts, but I'm not sure how to put my thoughts into words.ReplyDelete
When you are ready go ahead. I have many thoughts as well.Delete
Lol some people will say that's how it is with mares. (Though all my previous horses were mares and they were pretty even-keeled) sounds like you had some very nice moments there!ReplyDelete
I use these spurs: https://www.ridingwarehouse.com/Stubben_STEELTec_Dynamic_Soft_Touch_Spurs_15mm/descpage-STST.html
thanks! I really like those spurs.Delete
oh Carmen.... that poem fits her perfectly. good on you for sitting so well and being so secure in your position tho bc even in all these pictures, it would be easy to miss the examples where she's being a little... ahem, 'extra' bc you're just sitting right there where you belong anyway. glad it was a good ride tho and that your resolution to be forward no matter what worked! personally i SWEAR by my itsy bitsy nubby spurs - i think they're called tom thumb spurs. they're enough without being too much.ReplyDelete
It really does fit her. Thanks for the compliment on my position- I have been working really hard. I will check out those spurs too.Delete
Ohhh, I myself heard that poem many MANY times as a child hahaha! I think the good horses are not easy and this lesson sounds like you were able to get your point across well. Ellie is not as advanced in her training as Carmen, but she has very similar Big Feelings and working through them can be such a challenge at times. I agree that finding ways to control her energy and "fire" is the way to go, and so far patience and repetition have been the only things I have found work (and yes, I wear spurs myself hahaha)!ReplyDelete