|Irish enjoyed Horse Camp too.|
I gave myself a pep talk and reviewed what I had to keep in mind:
- stay calm and focussed on task- do not buy into her drama
- ride correctly from the beginning- make sure that my position is correct (well as correct as I can anyway) and my aids are clear
And guess what? It worked. I didn't focus on getting her to ride into the spooky areas- I focussed on riding the gait/pattern I had in mind. It didn't take long before she was tuning into me and not the potential dangers. I also had to stop her from swerving up towards C (our new rest stop). That felt so good to have this as a new issue. I even started to chip away at the 'rest zone' with work. I"m hoping that soon we won't be doing that at all.
I wanted to work on getting her to lengthen stride but it was not a huge success. I needed to go back to walk-trot transitions with them coming from behind. Once I had that I took her across the diagonal and felt her actually stretch out into a slightly longer stride. I stopped and let her rest with lots of pats.
Irish and Cynthia were rocking it as well. We were both done and then we went out around the field. I kept a short but following rein but she was completely relaxed and enjoyed the walk.
Saturday night Ed and I went out to celebrate 29 years of marriage. It was a delicious dinner on the Lunenburg waterfront. this morning we awoke to the sound of rain. It was a great sound- we've not had any real rain for weeks. I was hoping for a rainy day but it stopped around noon. I went out to drag the ring thinking I would ride but it was so hot and humid it felt like a sauna. I was sweating just driving the tractor. The horses were smart and hid in the barn all afternoon. I've been riding pretty consistently this summer- sometimes twice a day so I gave myself permission to take today off. Carmen and I have had some intense rides this summer and now I believe it's time for her to learn that it can be fun, not a battle.
It's so amazing to hear that she's getting so consistently good. I'm so happy for you :)ReplyDelete
It really is. It is making me so happy. :DDelete
29 years of marriage is amazing. Congrats. And I hear you on the heat and humidity. It's super horrible here too :(ReplyDelete
Thank you. It doesn't seem that long (well some days were very long).Delete
Congrats on 29 years! It seems you and Carmen found your way to a partnership. Leah and I are still searching for ours, but it is not easily gained which makes it all the more sweeter when it happens.ReplyDelete
I believe that we're on our way.Delete
Happy belated anniversary. Love reading what you and Carmen are up to together. Gives me hope for Grace & I. Kids & horses are just the best mix aren't they.ReplyDelete
Grace is doing very well.Delete
Wow! 29 years! Congrats :)ReplyDelete
Congratulations on 29 years! You and Carmen are doing great and I think you deserve a day off. Especially if it's as hot and humid there as it is here.ReplyDelete