But as the saying goes, if wishes were horses, beggars would ride.
I hate not being in a regular ride schedule. Work has been really busy too which makes it harder.
Everyone wanted some extra attention from me when I was home. Note the canine waiting patiently. |
In the morning I took Carmen up to work on our ground patterns and learning how to deal with pressure. She did really well. Even when I attached the flag to one of the posts in the riding ring. She didn't want it to touch her (it was flapping quite hard) but wasn't frightened or nervous. The goal is for her to learn how to be calm and seek a relaxed posture when stressed, rather than building on the stress and exploding.
just in case I hadn't notice him nobly waiting for me. |
After a couple hours I brought her out and tacked her up. She was being good until one of the neighbours raced this frankenstein tractor down the road. It was the frame of an old tractor with a different engine on it.
In the ring we did a little in-hand work and then I mounted. Right away she began to get super tight and balky. I tried to help her ride it through but she began to escalate a bit.
But it didn't seem like she was frightened, it felt more like she didn't want to work.
would rather look for snacks |
I spent the rest of the ride just helping her find a soft and relaxed posture. When she did, I let her carry it for a bit and then gave a break. When she got all twisty I kept myself centred and balanced and let her find me. I wasn't worried about what she going to do- I was confident I could ride it out.
Carmen began to relax when the tractor came back.
sigh.
We stopped to watch it and then I asked her to go. With a sigh she gave me a lovely relaxed trot. We trotted a figure 8 and she was great. I then saw the tractor coming dragging a cart with a flat tire. I halted and called it a day.
In all we worked about 35 minutes. Which was okay given that we are just getting back to work.
I am hopeful that that this work on showing her that life is better when she relaxes is going to pay off.
I just need to work on my own patience.
I need to take a page out of Guinness' book |
That tractor sounds kind of annoying but you both handled it well! She sounds a lot like my guy --- complicated. Sensitive yet opinionated. I am just starting to learn to ride the line of making sure I set boundaries, but not also over facing them. You sound very zen right now :)
ReplyDeleteSensitive yet opinionated totally sums her up. Also me. 😁. Really working on my zen.
DeleteYou handled it very well and what an improvement for her to see something scary and then sigh and go back to work
ReplyDeleteIt is. It’s always a guessing game as to whether it’s the right answer or not.
DeleteGuinness is so cute! Poor Carmen - the game is up, it sounds like you've totally got her number :D
ReplyDeleteG is adorable. And I hope I have her number
DeleteI like that you were able to call her bluff in that one moment, while also recognizing which other moments she needed more help
ReplyDeleteThank you. It’s feels like a guessing game.
DeleteOh, it will pay off. No doubt! Horses are pretty damn smart about it. Leah was walking back to our trailer a couple weeks ago, and her attention was on other horses. She tripped pretty bad. So, instead of ending the ride, we worked hard at the trailer for about fifteen minutes. Last week, we did the same ride, and when she got close enough to see the trailer, she slowed right down and watched where she was going. They. Are. Smart.
ReplyDeleteI’m pretty sure she’s smarter than me! My only advantage is that I spend more time thinking about it. 😊
DeleteEven if you're not getting to ride as much as you want right now you and Carmen are still doing exercises that matter. She seems to be relaxing a lot more these days.
ReplyDeleteGuinness is too cute sneaking up slowly, a bit at a time. Love the last picture of him, that's priceless.
She is definitely more relaxed.
DeleteI love how hard you're working to actively help her figure out how to handle her stress. It's not an easy process, but you're doing a great job. It sounds like you're very good at reading the difference between her being spooked and her trying to evade work, and that's awesome too. Love this post :)
ReplyDeleteThank you so very much for your support! I value your opinion and it's nice to get the feedback.
DeleteUgh neighbors and their noisy toys. So annoying. I know because I have one next to me too. Like literally next to my ring. He's nearly gotten my killed a million times. Glad you were able to work through it. It really sounds like you two are making a lot of progress.
ReplyDeleteOmg Guinness <3
ReplyDeleteSounds like you guys had some productive work!! That's so exciting.