Okay that might be a little too 'glass is half full'. But still.....
It also corresponded to the weather stabilizing into a sunny day. Julia has moved to the area and we arranged to meet up and ride.
Carmen was a bit tight when I brought her in but that was okay because I already planned to lunge her first anyway. I figured that if she was stiff then being able to move without me on would be good for her back.
It's been interesting looking at my work with her through the lense of helping her to deal with pressure in a way that builds her confidence. As I start back I'm squashing all the 'I should' thoughts. Ones like:
I should be working on leg yields,
I should be working on lengthens
I should be working on perfecting transitions
I should be working on getting ready for second level
I should be working on _______
Not that I don't want to work on all those things but that if that becomes my focus I will fail. I am trying to keep with my 'process goals'.
So I'm trying to gauge her internal pressure and ride accordingly. It took a little time lunging her for me to feel that she was in the right head space. But when I mounted she stood stock still and moved off when I asked. I could feel her walking fast and tense and I tried to use my seat to keep her slow. Without Karen to guide me it was much harder to do. I could tell that she was much more comfortable in the bridle so I was glad I had her teeth done.
As we walked on I just focussed on staying calm and not tight. As we worked she began to blow and relax. As she did that I began to ask for more things: trotting, going by her spooky spots, bending etc. When it fell apart we regrouped and began again. Every now and then she sent me the message that she was thinking of freaking out. I would relax more and just stay the course.
There was this one point where she gave a big shy. I sat up and she came to a stop herself and then began marching towards what had spooked her. Honestly, this is the first time she's ever done that. I gave her rein and let her march towards the rail with a loose rein. She looked over the fence, sighed and we then went back to work. I loved that she dealt with the startle herself. I literally did nothing but sit there. As for what spooked her I think it was the song birds (Carmen: um they were velociraptors) that were flying madly about. (Carmen: trying to attack us. And they were armed).
Friday was supposed to be rainy all day but there was a patch of clearing in the middle of the afternoon so Julia came out and we took advantage.
|Irish: Two days in a row? What madness is this?|
|nice to see this set up again|
|clearly there is danger lurking there. Also, it didn't seem that|
foggy when we were riding (PC Julia)
So there's a lot to do but it feels like it's in the right direction.
I think it's great that she faced what startled her and checked it out herself.ReplyDelete
I think so too. Much better then bolting!Delete
Eeeee yay for getting the trailer out again for the season haha, and Irish’s face is priceless ;)ReplyDelete
It's exciting to have it out!Delete
Sounds like you two are really listening to each other, and she's holding up her end by trying to get braver. Great progress!ReplyDelete