I had a lesson on Saturday and, spoiler alert, it was really good. Carmen was just coming off a heat so I knew it would be better. Now that she and I are working calmly it's a lot easier for me to identify patterns that affect behaviour. I will say that it's pretty clear that she's less willing to ' do the thing' (or anything really that doesn't involve rubbing her tail and eating) when she's in heat. Sometime I consider using medication but I've decided that we can figure this out without messing with her hormones (she is on chaste berry but nothing else).
Our lesson was early and it was a truly lovely morning. The focus continues to be on helping Carmen and I to be in more self carriage. It is no longer sufficient that we are not careening about, now we have to elevate our game. This requires me to be consistent in my aid, reins and expectations. It is hard work, for both of us. Like a really hard pilates class. Although I am grateful for my pilates classes because it's making this easier for me to do.
I have to share this sequence of photos from the video. We were walking around, something spooked her and then we went right back to work. This is really good for us.
falalala |
false alarm |
I have to say that when I rewatch the video I can see a marked improvement in Carmen's gaits. She is tracking up and staying much steadier than even from 2 months ago. We even did a serpentine counter canter and it was pretty balanced.
Jane is having us work on shoulder in on the circle. I would swear that I'm doing it but when I look at the video we are not. But we're trying. Carmen is funny- when she's uncertain (or unwilling) she will tighten everything up and then leg yield around the circle. Jane, I'm sure was getting frustrated with us. I did say at one point 'I don't know what we're doing but I'm pretty sure it's not what you want'. Not that she gets mad, I just know that if she were riding it would be sorted while I flail about. (Instructing is not for the faint of heart).
square halts at least |
Canter is coming too |
We changed direction and she became even stiffer doing some sort of leg yield crab walk thing. I could definitely feel it be wrong. I can feel what she's doing I said, then I muttered 'now I fucking do something about it'. Jane laughed. I put on my leg and tapped Carmen with the whip. She needed to go forward and then bend. And she did. We came around again. Oh I took off my outside leg, no wonder she went sideways! I know, Jane said (a little smugly but that was fair).
The goal, as Jane explained, is to take the weight off her front legs by half-halting into the transition. It also means riding her forward without going faster. This way she'll step more under with her hind legs.
so much lighter |
This mare is not easy. I doubt she'll ever be easy and I don't think I could have done this last year, she requires a level of fitness that Jane says wouldn't be necessary with a more sanguine horse. But she's taught me so much and made me elevate my game. When I worry that maybe this is too hard I look at the videos and see how this training is helping her to be balanced and soft which will only help her stay sound.
It really is a lot of fun even though it's hard.
"I would swear that I'm doing it but when I look at the video we are not" ----> story of my life LOL! it's always crazy to me how deeply my body lies to me about my posture haha, what feels 'normal' or 'balanced' is usually anything but. y'all look great, tho, Carmen is really looking so steady and consistent! must feel so exciting :D
ReplyDeleteThe video really helps because there’s no way to argue. Even if it’s humbling lol. It does feel good.
DeleteLooking good ❤️
ReplyDeleteI have followed your blog for a number of years and am so impressed with how far your partnership with Carmen has come. I totally agree that the tricky horses can teach us so many valuable lessons!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. I remember when her resistance was bolting. Now it’s not bending….😁
DeleteAll your work is paying off! Those harder horses teach us the most. Having videos and a coach is the best way to evaluate ourselves- because what we think isn't always what's really going on!
ReplyDeleteLove the "so much lighter" photo.
Thank you!
DeleteLooks lovely to me. Your Pilates work is excellent for riding and life. My aunt has been doing Pilates for decades and she is a beautiful, and fit, 75 years old now, but looks to be in her 50’s.
ReplyDeleteMy goals are so much less than yours. I only want to ride around on a loose rein and be able to drink a beer while going down a trail. 🤣 I have to do a lot of this collection work to get there, but it’s way beyond my pay grade.
Honestly, drinking a beer riding down a trail sounds awesome!
DeleteIt's funny, I think some hard horses come into our lives to teach us. And once they do that, they aren't quite so hard anymore. But that in between part seems endless. You and Carmen have developed so much as a team, and even though it's hard, I don't think it's too hard for either of you. Just a challenge that you'll overcome.
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