I headed out late morning on Friday and met up with Tanya so we could travel together. That way is something happened to one of us we would have another trailer and some support. It was uneventful, other than the fact some drivers make very stupid decisions and seem to have no fucking clue that their little mazda won't fare well in a collision with a truck and trailer.
When we got there I decided to join Tanya in the outside shedrow stalls. It was a good decision- the weather was hot all weekend and these stalls had lots of air movement and shade.
1. This will do:
Carmen approved of her new digs and made herself right at home.
|Proof of her angelic nature|
|erhm, maybe not|
2. Calm and confident
She was very comfortable in the ring walking around and our ride that evening was really really good. No shenanigans, just focus and forward.
The next morning I took her for a walk too see the ring and the flowers. She insisted on sniffing each and every one.
|@C halt and smell the flowers|
3. Don't fence me in:
I had rigged up a stall guard to allow for more air circulation. I thought I was being clever and thoughtful. However, when I went to refill her water I walked back down the row and saw a pretty grey butt that was not where I left it. It took me a minute to realize that was Carmen and she was out. I put down the bucket and headed slowly towards her when I saw that Shanea had her. It seems that Carmen leaned on the guard and popped out the screw bolt. She just wandered down by the warm up ring and started grazing. It took people a minute realize she was loose. I tightened the bolt but she did it again later and then again so I gave up. I am a much slower learner than Carmen, apparently.
3. It's not OCD, it's planning:
When it was time to ride I went to put on my 'show' boots only to find that both zippers were broken. I was upset because this was only the second show I had worn them at. Fortunately I had packed my schooling boots so I had to clean them up and use them. Clearly overpacking is a good thing.
|I contacted the company and they are replacing the boots for me|
4. Just take it
Our ride times were in the afternoon and it was so very very hot. I
begged asked the show committee if we could excuse jackets. Fortunately the judge listened to pleas of a menopausal woman and excused jackets. In spite of that, after my first ride I was HOT. Like really hot. I was walking Carmen back to the barn when I saw Maria holding out a small glass of liquid and without thinking I grabbed it and downed it. It was delicious wine and she was handing it to Teri. Fortunately, a fight did not break out and Teri went to get another glass while Maria refilled my glass. Sorry-not-sorry.
5. Friend's look after each other:
Tanya was awesome and looked after Carmen every morning, giving her hay and water while her lazy servant made her way to the show grounds. Nicole offered to wash my show clothes and I am so grateful. So was everyone downwind of me, I'm sure.
|I could see a business opportunity here....|
6. You've got my number:
On Sunday, I was a bit hotter, a little more tired and more easily frazzled. I came in to walk around the ring when I realized that I didn't have my number. I yelled to Cindy to run and get it while I cantered back out and hoped like hell I wasn't going to get eliminated. Cindy came back with it and said now which side should it go on and I said hysterically JUST STICK IT ON!
I trotted back in and when I went by the trailer that the judge was in I heard this amused voice say 'all ready? Do you have your number?
Yes please I said sheepishly and I heard her giggle as I walked down the long side.
If I only had a brain....
|I had it all along, I swear.....|
7. Talking to myself
I don't really realize it but I tend to keep up a running conversation with Carmen when I ride. Especially in the warm up ring. I guess it can be amusing sometimes. I saw Maria's husband, Isaac, standing at the fence and laughing at us every time I went by. I said something about providing some comedy relief and he said that he wanted to stick a mike on me and record me when I ride. I don't know if anyone is ready for that. Sometimes I have been known to *cough* swear.
8. Regretting life choices:
Carmen was in full dragon mode on Sunday in our warm up and for our first test (more on that later). I simply rode her forward and let her expend some energy. During the ribbon ceremony she could barely keep her eyes open.
It was a great weekend, full of laughter and friendship and horses. I had a blast. I'm pretty sure that Carmen enjoyed it too, even though she is pointedly ignoring me out in her field today.
Love how much your relationship is maturing and I adore reading you having fun and enjoying your time with Carmen. Excited to read the details.ReplyDelete
Aw, thank you so much! I am enjoying it too.Delete
Yay! Congrats on having a fun show experience.ReplyDelete
It was a refreshing change.Delete
Sounds like a fantastic outing! I love shows where there is a sense of community and lots of friends to laugh with :)ReplyDelete
It really was a fun bunch of people and very supportiveDelete
Sounds like a wonderful horsey weekend :)ReplyDelete
It was like camping, not a show!Delete
Sounds like a wonderful horsey weekend :)ReplyDelete
Have you seen that video, I think it's Warwick Schiller's dressage friend...this guy does a test and narrates the entire thing, and flops around in the saddle hilariously as his horse performs perfectly? O man I wish I knew how to find that for you.ReplyDelete
You are thinking of Brett Kindding. He’s a character that Tristan Tucker plays at his clinics.Delete
so many excellent tidbits here haha!! i love the drive-by-wine theft lol. also, what a good thing you had a spare pair of boots!! i put my boots in a different-from-normal spot at our last show (hint: right in front of my face, which is apparently invisible) and slightly panicked when i realized the implications of what might happen if they were forgotten.... like, what would i do? run around from trailer to trailer, begging people to loan me their boots???? lol...ReplyDelete
It really was last minute that I threw them in! I’m so glad. And drive by wine theft is totally a thing.Delete
I'm not a fan of the heat, and I applaud you for sticking it out and going to a show in it. That it was also fun is a big bonus that probably made it all worthwhile.ReplyDelete
It was funny but I really wasn’t nervous like in the past.Delete
this post was so fun, thank you for sharing. I'm glad you had such a good time despite the heat - sounds like everyone was suffering from that the past couple weeks!!ReplyDelete
I wanted to write about more than just the results. I find that it's good for me to realize that it's not just about the 'action'. :)Delete
Showing is so much funner with friends. It sounds like you had a lot of fun.ReplyDelete
It really is more fun when everyone is having a good time!Delete
1.The wine story is my favorite.ReplyDelete
2.That's ridiculous with the boots, glad you had a spare and that they are being replaced!
3. I can't wait to read about the riding!
Lol, I am a wine thief. And not sorry at all. 😎🍷Delete
Always pack extras. Always.
I hope you enjoyed the riding.
I love that Carmen escaped but didn't cause any trouble. You know a girl just likes a snack once in a while! Sounds like a fun time.ReplyDelete
I found that funny too. That’s my girl- all about the snacks.Delete
I'm impressed with your packing so that you were covered even when the boot debacle occurred! That's prepardedness.ReplyDelete
I have a gray app that I use to make lists. 😁Delete
Sigh, that should say ‘great app’Delete
What a lovely post! It sounds like you had one of those really good experiences, where all your hard work pays off.ReplyDelete