At least that gave me a chance to work on the idea that we go places and while I'm willing to support her, I'm not willing to let her make those choices.
When we were walking down towards the area she tried to balk, then to spin. When I kept riding her forward she leaned back on her haunches and spun away. I can quite appreciate the athleticness of the maneuver. Shanea even commented that she was being a bit 'difficult'.
What Shanea noted was that when Carmen was being resistant she was throwing her shoulder against me and then I over-correct which puts Carmen all out of alignment and both of us are unbalanced.
My Task was to keep us inside the box: essentially her shoulders and haunches aligned and underneath of me. Even when she's flinging herself around. It's not easy - she's getting fitter.
But so am I.
Here we are are heading through the 'nope' corner. See how her neck retracts? This is what makes it hard to not ride with a super short rein.
Shanea was talking me through using shoulder in as an exercise to help with this. It allows her to be 'away' from the scary place but use herself.
It was a 'hard' lesson both mentally and physically. I had to keep my self aligned with my seat relaxed. Mentally because I had to be aware of Carmen's attention but not buy into it or fall into a self-defensive posture.
But it was so worth it.
I could feel her relax and come to me each time things went a bit awry. There were definite discussions but each time we came together.
We then went on to some canter work. My task was to keep Carmen straight under me. Which is really really hard, especially going to the right. She tends to throw her haunches in. Shanea had me canter down the quarter line and stay straight. Carmen headed over to the rail and Shanea said 'no, don't leg yield, stay straight!'.
I called out "This is not my idea, Carmen is doing it'. Which is a total cop out but honestly it was impossible to keep her on the line. We worked at it and things started to come together. Not perfect. But definitely better.
|cantering is easy. cantering straight is hard|
|look at us go|
Today Cynthia came to ride with us. The husbands were working on a shed down by the barn but this was a non-issue. After a good ride we headed out into the woods for a hack. I've not done a lot yet because I've been riding alone a lot. And by 'alone' I mean that Ed wasn't home on the farm. I didn't want to head out if he wasn't around. Irish was being a bit tight and spooky but Carmen was completely mellow. In fact, she lead for a lot of it. I just made sure we were inside the box even though we were out of the sandbox.
I’ve said this a lot, but I think horses are often more relaxed outside the arena. The arena means work, and they can be nervous about doing the wrong thing. I know mine are much more relaxed and happy on the trail, and all my friends say the same thing. It’s counterintuitive. My old trainer would rotate her days—arena one day, trail ride the next. She said her horses made much faster progress with that day of “rest” in between. Mental rest.ReplyDelete
I agree with the idea of trails. My issue is that if I'm all alone at home I worry that if I come off there's no one there to look for me or catch Carmen. If Ed is home I am fine with it. At some point I will not have that worry with her but for now it seems legit.Delete
I know exactly what you mean. I ride with friends. We have a rather large group of trail riders and we communicate via facebook about our rides. I never go out alone. In the past, I sometimes had to, but it was nerve-racking and ruined the experience. For a while, my group was small, and coordinating schedules was near impossible, but I've desperately tried to expand it.Delete
Carmen is not the easiest horse to ride but you have the tools to get her over herself. Glad she was mellow on the trails, it’s nice to get out of the arena and enjoy the scenery.ReplyDelete
I honestly believe that she would be so much easier had I had her from the beginning. But she would always be sensitive and feisty. :)Delete
Carmen likes to keep you sharp and doesn't want you to get too bored in the sand box.ReplyDelete
She's good at keeping me on my toes, that's for sure.Delete
Oooh those pics are great!! Also lol I feel ya on trying to ride a quarter line and ending up with an inadvertent leg yield. Charlie does the same thing, and my trainer often has me work a couple feet off the rail all the way around just so that I can be totally accountable and responsible for or straightness. It’s surprisingly hard tho lol...ReplyDelete
Charlie is so big I'm amazed how well you steer him so it gives me hope to hear that you can have the same issues.Delete
Keeping them straight and forward while they're flailing around looking for the exit is the hardest thing ever. Nicely done!ReplyDelete
It really is! I don't think I ever appreciated HOW difficult it is.Delete
Maybe not what you planned to work on during your lesson but helpful nonetheless!ReplyDelete
It was a good lesson for sureDelete
Shoulder in is such a great way to handle situations like this! Sounds like a super productive lesson for sure!ReplyDelete
it is- it's very hard to bolt out of a shoulder in. :)Delete
I love the idea of shoulder-in like to allow "escape" but still making her work. I need to get that kind of thing dialed in on Q.ReplyDelete
Yeah it combines the best of worlds.Delete
Sounds like a lot of great progress! You guys look great. I love the pictures. Even when she's being difficult she's gorgeous hehe.ReplyDelete
Thank you. she looks good even when dramatic.Delete
Sometimes the hard lessons are well worth it - gives us new tools for our toolbox.ReplyDelete
That is very trueDelete