Travelling to Quebec and seeing all those lovely horses and riders was inspirational to me and I was excited to get back to riding. But I also needed to catch up on chores, which included ordering in my winter hay. The big 4 string squares can't really be moved by hand. We wrestle them on to the tractor and then put them in place. Every time Ed went by Quaid tried to grab a bite. When he missed he'd give me his sad eyes. Finally Ed stopped so he could taste.
| Quaid: just a nibble |
I was able to just jump back into riding and both horses were feeling the fall weather. With Carmen that makes her spicy and jumpy. Quaid is more reactive too but not as committed. With him I've been focussing on adding confidence and riding forward. It feels like things are improving.
| pretty falling leaves, brisk winds and cool air. What could go wrong? |
With Carmen she can get pretty heavy in the hand when she's feeling contrary. It can lead to a tug of war that I definitely don't want. It's so easy to fall into the trap of taking my legs off and bracing with my hands. So I was glad to have a lesson yesterday with Jane. It was Carmen's turn anyway but I probably would have chosen her anyway.
As an aside, I can recognise how lucky I am to have two horses to ride while I worry that I'm not advancing them as fast because I can't afford two lessons a week. Such a first world problem.
It was a cold and blustery day. Jane has been taking lessons from Janine Little and we are all benefiting from that. Jane started us walking and having me work on keeping the bit moving in her mouth and not locking my hands and giving her something to lean on. I always worry about moving the bit because I think I'm going to end up see-sawing on her mouth. But Jane explained that it's more like a vibration and keeps her from locking on the hand and keeping her neck tight and stiff.
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| Sharing this photo because Cordelia LOVES Dottie. Dottie is less enamoured, lol |
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| lots of shots like this or with no horse lol |
After we walked Jane had us move right into canter. First off, her canter is so much more balanced now. We then moved into working on counter canter. Carmen broke and switched her lead so Jane had us practice picking up the counter canter on a circle. It was really hard and I struggled to line up my aids. Carmen was adorable, she knew I was asking for the wrong lead so she just fixed it. So that will be homework. Of course I was to this while keeping the bit mobile and asking her to half-halt and not hold. And also not over-aid. As I said to Jane, my default is always to hold. So this was really good for me to focus on it.
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| counter canter- looks a bit wild but it really wasn't |
I also can fall into the trap of trying to ride well by being too strong. It's been a real lesson for me this year (or really all years lol) is that trying harder means riding softer. But honestly it really works.
We did trot work at the end. I really liked doing the ride this way. Her trot was so loose and soft and just so flexible. No leaning on the bit or plowing on her shoulders.
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| having so much fun |
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| whee, moving towards suspension |
It was a great lesson and exactly what we needed. Keeping the bit mobile made a huge difference in our half-halts. They were more effective and lighter. Jane says that our flying changes are getting closer which is exciting. I'm really happy with how my riding has progressed this year.





Carmen has still got it! She is a beautiful horse and moves beautifully. You look on her! My trainer had me do something similar with the bit when I rode Leah, and it really helped Leah. It seemed to comfort her.
ReplyDeleteThank you. This time of year she’s definitely showing the dirt lol.
DeleteCarmen looks fantastic!! What great feeling!! And it’s funny actually thinking about moving the bit around, I definitely try to think about it while riding bc it helps keep me from just locking down on the contact
ReplyDeleteThat’s exactly it. When a horse is spicy my default is to hold.
DeleteI've seen so many horses whose trot is better after cantering. It feels counterintuitive to canter first, but it works!
ReplyDeleteIt definitely worked for Irish. I’ve just mug one there because, in the past, she’s been so hot and spooky about it. But clearly I need to up my game.
DeleteThe great thing is that both you and Carmen are progressing. So great to have coached lessons at home! Carmen looks magnificent especially in that counter canter photo.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I love having lessons at home.
DeleteShe looks lovely, and I'm glad you're having fun with her!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteYou guys look amazing!!! Me and my pony can never get the counter canter because he thinks he's going something wrong when he's cantering around on the wrong lead😂
ReplyDeleteCarmen agrees with your pony!
DeleteYou two are such a great pair these days! You both look fantastic.
ReplyDeleteA lot of the things you talk about really resonate for me and Al. This quite specifically spoke to me, "trying harder means riding softer". I had a little bit of the same epiphany today in fact. He was being pretty good, but started get stiff and snorty. And it was at that moment I realized I too was getting stiff and, well, pully rather than snorty. As soon as I softened my arms a little and used my leg to ask for bend instead he stopped snorting and softened right back. Man. Riding is hard.
Riding is so hard! Good for you for riding him through it.
DeleteCordelia just wants to love and be loved!
ReplyDeleteThat’s her in a nutshell !
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